Week 12: Reflection Week🧔

:fire: Welcome to the FINAL week of Trans4m :fire:

You’ve made it to Week 12… and that’s something to be seriously proud of.

This week is all about reflection, taking the time to look back on how far you’ve come, not just physically, but mentally and emotionally too.

Here are a few prompts to help guide your reflection:

• What has been your biggest win over the past 12 weeks?
• What habits have you built that you want to carry forward?
• What challenges did you overcome that once felt impossible?
• How has your mindset around training, nutrition, or yourself changed?
• What are you most proud of - beyond just the scales or photos?

Remember, this journey was never just about the end result, it’s about who you’ve become along the way.

:camera_with_flash: After photo submissions are now LIVE in your Members Hub!
Make sure you get yours uploaded before the 31st - don’t miss the chance to celebrate your progress and hard work.

Let’s finish strong :flexed_biceps:

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I’m really happy I took part in the challenge! It’s not gone perfectly but I’m proud I got back on track quickly when things didn’t go to plan :blush: I’m ready to keep up with the good habits I’ve built throughout the rest of the year such as steps, protein, going to the gym and would love to do the challenge again next year :blush:At the start of this year I was so uncomfortable in the gym, now I’m going consistently 4 times a week and trying new exercises regularly! Thanks everyone for lovely support :blush:

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Biggest win was 1000% getting my self confidence back
Challenges were getting back into the good habits took me a two to three weeks to do so
Since last years 12week I haven’t been staying as good as I had in turn put on what I lost

Most proud of actually getting back on track and the self confidence and feel good about myself again

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This 12-week journey has honestly felt like finding my way back to myself. Before 2020, I was consistent, active, and had a healthy balance—but between pregnancy, lockdown, and the chaos of family life, those habits slowly disappeared. Training stopped, nutrition became about convenience, and I was stuck in a cycle of short-term fixes for holidays, never truly feeling comfortable or settled in myself.

What I’m most proud of is breaking that cycle. This challenge helped me rebuild not just my routine, but my identity. I’ve proven to myself that I can prioritise my health again, even with two kids, husband and a busy schedules. The biggest shift has been moving away from ā€œall or nothingā€ thinking and learning how to create sustainable habits that actually fit my life.

A huge win has been the support from my family—they’ve recognised that I’m not just the one holding everything together, but that I need time, energy, and care too. That’s been a massive mindset shift for all of us!

I feel stronger, more in control, and far less stuck in that constant stress mode. This really isn’t just about weight or photos—it’s about feeling like me again, and that’s something I’m determined to carry forward long after these 12 weeks.

I appreciate everyone that’s been in the forum sending support and encouragement, what a wonderful bunch of supportive individuals!! :clap:

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The 12 weeks have been great :slight_smile:

Ive connected with some others on the challenge and im sure they will help me stay accountable after it too.

I love the way the challenges have helped me focus on smaller things at a time and ive tried to keep each one going as the weeks have added another focus.

Hydration, steps, tracking my food, protein, getting in my workouts every day I planned to …

Ive got my self back on track and good habits back in place.

Thank you per4m :slight_smile: and to everyone one in here who has helped me too.

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I believe we’ve all won on this challenge, everyone has put 110% effort in and you can see this.

I’ve really enjoyed my journey with per4m. My knowledge has grown thanks to everyone sharing their tips and tricks and I really appreciate that :smiling_face: there was times I thought I’d lost it, but glad I got back on track :slightly_smiling_face:

I can’t wait to continue my journey ready for my holiday in June :flexed_biceps::flexed_biceps:

Thank you again everyone :flexed_biceps: hope to stay in touch on insta and carry on helping each other :slightly_smiling_face:

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My biggest win over the past 12 weeks has been the fact that I have been consistent with my diet steps, cardio and training, and I’m really happy with how far I got during that time. Especially with having to dealing with multiple social occasions. I still got back on track straight after and 1 day doesn’t define the 12 weeks.

After my birthday in September last yearI did fall off a bit, but instead of seeing that as failure, I’m looking at the bigger picture. I’ve proven to myself that I can stick to the plan and make progress.

One habit I’ve definitely built is being more aware of my nutrition and staying disciplined with training when I’m focused. That’s something I want to carry forward as I continue.

I think the biggest mindset change for me is understanding that progress isn’t about being perfect all the time — it’s about getting back on track and continuing forward. I’m proud of the progress I’ve made so far, and I’m planning to continue dieting until I reach the level of leanness I’m aiming for

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Taking part in this competition was both challenging and amazing​:sparkles::sparkles:

before the competition, my fitness level was not great , my diet and training lacked structure. I often trained inconsistently and didn’t pay much attention to my nutrition . My main goal was to lose body fat while increasing muscle , as well as improving my overall fitness and discipline. I also wanted to prove to myself that I could stay consistent over a set period of time.One of the biggest lessons I learned was the importance of consistency over perfection. Small, daily efforts make a big difference,during the competition I faced a couple challenges. There were times when motivation was extremely low, and sticking to my diet was difficult, especially during gigs and night with friends and work , I also experienced periods where my progress slowed down, which was frustrating. But I overcame these challenges by staying focused on my goals and maintaining discipline, even when I didn’t feel motivated :flexed_biceps:t3:

Overall, I am proud of what I achieved during this competition. If I were to do it again, I would focus even more on recovery and planning ahead . Moving forward, my goal is to continue building muscle while maintaining a healthy and sustainable lifestyle.

Thankyou for everything Per4m team and everyone who showed support :sparkles::flexed_biceps:t3:

we made it to the end :two_hearts:

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Well done sam you’ve done great and have been so present in here too so have supported me and plenty of others too … thank you :slight_smile:

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2 women that i dont know, have complimented me today in the gym, while I was working out :smiling_face:

It takes a few seconds to say something kind and change some ones day. so im going to pass on the kindness and compliment some one else in the gym before I leave this morning :partying_face:

Mabey we should all see how many strangers we can pass on the good vibes to x

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I’m so extremely grateful I decided to complete this challenge. I felt a little lost coming into 2026 with my physique goals, I’m a personal trainer so have always felt pressure to look a certain way but after my first bodybuilding competition in 2024 I had a really negative relationship with food and found myself at the heaviest I’d been for a long time.

I think my biggest win has just been showing up for myself every single day and I owe it to this community for keeping me motivated and pushing forward.

I’ve built solid habits around my nutrition so going back to a meal plan approach, with weekly off plan meals to allow flexibility and enjoyment too. I never thought I would be back in such a good place with food since competing as I genuinely felt so stuck I didn’t think it was possible to end up where I am now.

Mindset wise, I just feel so grateful for my body and everything it does for me instead of shaming it for the way it looks. I feel like this has helped me look after my body with better nutrition and movement, which has then led to the fat loss as a side effect, rather than hating on my body and shaming it for not looking a certain way.

I’m just really proud for being in a place I didn’t think I would be 12 weeks ago, honestly I don’t recognise the girl in the before photos and that’s a really nice feeling to celebrate how far I’ve come.

Thank you everybody for your support. I’m @alexandrab_fit on Instagram if anybody wants to follow and connect outside of this challenge :blush:

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This 12 week has been the best! Not going to lie when I first signed up I was expecting to maybe get a couple week in and then bail on it. So glad I didn’t! the community has been fantastic all the way through and I want to thank everyone whos taken time to reply to me even a little heart on my posts means a lot!

Biggest win for this is actually sticking with it! Im one for starting things with lots of excitement and then slowly falls off.

Habits I intend on carrying forward is keeping myself accountable and continuing to take an interest in what im eating and keep tracking!

Starting back at the gym was daunting and the challenge I think was my biggest is acknowledging that I had a food addiction and actually taking control over this!

My mindset is the best its ever been not only my physical heath but my mental heath has improved ten fold! My mindset has also changed in theres no such thing as a ā€œbad mealā€ or a ā€œcheat mealā€ its all in moderation, could my diet of been even better? Course it could but ive made conscious choices and not sent it through the wall.

also one bad gym session isn’t the end of the world! And the scales may not always tell the truth haha taking progress photos has definitely helped me when the scales ā€œstuckā€ I think we can all be our worst critiques especially when we are doing weightloss/muscle build etc so having photos to look back and go hey ive smashed this is definitely something I will be carrying forward!

Im proud of myself that ive done it! Would I love to be in the top 3 of my category? Course I would but I think this challenge has set the foundations for me to continue on my journey and see where I can get to in the next 3 months and then the months after that!

Thank you for coming to my TED talk

Mikey :blush:

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It’s taken me a while to decide what to write here. Happy to have made it to the end but sad that it seems to have flown by and it’s now the end.

When it came to joining the challenge it was mainly to regain my focus with training and re-evaluate where I am in my journey. I had the goal to lose weight and reinforce habits. The biggest win I would say though is finding others along the same journey. It can become a very lonely road when working on yourself but this group has shown everyone so much support along the way and pushing each other through the challenges it has been a blessing to meet people on a similar journey.

The weekly challenges were great at introducing new habits as well as re-enforcing old ones like hitting daily steps, tracking macros or just getting enough sleep (which I’m still not good at :joy:) .

Mindset has been a major shift, the challenge helped me to focus in on my goals, my training and helped to develop a better understanding of how to balance out my nutrition depending on the stages of where we were at in the challenge. All the early morning workouts and tracking steps, calories and sleep along the way has been totally worth it and has set us up for continued success after this is over.

The main thing is this has prepared us for life after the challenge I hope everyone continues to build upon what they have achieved already. It has shown us that with commitment and discipline anything is achievable. I personally want to help others beyond this and hope to one day get the sufficient qualifications to train others. It may be a long time before I get there but it is another goal of mine along my own journey.

Connecting with people along the way has been great and it has been a pleasure to meet so many of you on here and hopefully I can keep up with your journeys over on Instagram.

But enough of my ramblings. 2am will be round soon enough and I have a leg session to get ready for :joy:

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Over the last 12 weeks my biggest win I would say is gaining good habits and positivity towards eating and making good/correct choices

habits I have gained over this course have been a better understanding over scale weight and understanding that when that scale weight goes up it’s not always because you ā€˜ā€™messed Up’’ it’s your body adapting and repairing

my biggest challenge was 100% binge eating and purging and in the beginning this was a challenge for my mind as I really don’t like ā€œmessing upā€ or seeing the scales moving any other direction than down

my proudest achievement this 12 weeks has got to be the fact that I have now officially gone 13 weeks without purging I’ve had some binges but I got back on track no overtraining and no purging after many said including my therapist that this course would be a bad idea but I knew deep down I had this and I did so 13 week no relapse that’s my biggest achievement and not only do I have my support from family and my wife but seeing everyone’s story’s and journeys and the small pat on the backs by people. Win or lose we have all won with our amazing transformations and we are leaving here with something

So thank you for this opportunity it’s really showed me what can be accomplished in 12 weeks

Good luck everyone from what I’ve seen you’ve all done amazing

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For me the biggest win over the 12 weeks was becoming more confident at the gym and believing in myself to not feel as anxious - it helped me go even further by changing to a new gym for the last month which came with it more equipment but also fears of being judged. Everyone has been polite, friendly and welcoming and I’m so glad I pushed myself.

Habits I’d say I’ve learnt that it’s okay to have a guilty treat - but it’s the over indulging that isn’t good and surprisingly not so hard to control. Having a little sweet or chocolate rather than a bag or full bar has helped me to feel satisfied at times of struggle but not feel guilty for having something delicious :face_savoring_food:

The nutrition has and always will be my hardest challenge. I started the 12 weeks focusing on building strength and getting into the gym more, pushing my active fitness up, eating healthy meals but not limiting the macros. After 6 weeks I then started to calorie deficit and focus on improving my macro targets and it was clear that in the last 6 weeks I saw the most body transformation. I’ve dropped around a stone in weight and am now fuelled to keep going ahead of my holiday in June :flexed_biceps:t3: not much more to go to have the stomach feeling more where I want to be and then it’ll be onto a bulk.

I’d say my mindset has become more focused, using an app to track nutrition and weight has pushed me to keep going each week. I’ve had some busy weekends where poor food choices could’ve been made but instead I’ve managed to remind myself what I’m doing and what I want to achieve to make good choices (in most instances). Hey, no point in not having fun along the way.

I’m proud of all the growth and strengths I’ve found in myself - I’ve also become almost addicted to fitness, something a year ago I would have laughed at. My fitness journey started last April and to see where I am today and how far I’ve come it’s the biggest reward I could have. That and maybe a guilty takeaway tonight to celebrate where we’ve all got to!!

Me last June when I first signed up to my online PT:

And me today:

Everyone should be so proud of how far they’ve come - even if like me you don’t have the six pack you thought you might have by the end of the challenge, there is so much more we’ve won in ourselves! Well done everyone and thank you for all the positive encouragement week in week out!

Next stop… I’m getting that six pack :rofl:

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My biggest win would be getting back into a consistent routine with training and following a more structured plan.

I still need to get better at logging workouts and this is something I’ll continue to work on.

Loved the community and following along with people on Instagram. Pushing each other daily to be a little better.

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These past 12 weeks have been great, I’ve loved the challenge as a whole!

Biggest win was being able to stick to the diet even when others are eating food that looked so good :rofl: managed to get myself from 97kg down to 89kg!

I’ve built a really good gym/life balance and have managed yo maintain this!

There’s been a couple of thing to over come but recently I lost a family member and in that same day me and my wife lost our unborn baby which was alot to come at once. Fell off my routine quite a bit but managed to pull myself back together and get back training and getting my nutrition back on track. Life throws things at you but you’ve just got to power through!

I’m just proud of myself in general (something I’d never thought I’d say, cringe):joy::face_with_peeking_eye: but I feel so good that I’ve managed to do it and maintain my diet and gym routine for as long as this.

Just want to shout out to everyone in this challenge, you’ve all been incredible! The support and advice gained from some of you that I have spoke to has been great! Everyone has smashed it, you are all looking shredded :flexed_biceps:t2:

Thanks everyone and good luck with the results and going into the future!!! :heart:

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Just submitted my after photos after what’s been a very eventful 12 weeks.. in the first photo I had a wedding ring on and the second I don’t :flushed_face: 6 days into the challenge my husband left me, but it’s not stopped me, if anything having this to work on has kept me going :flexed_biceps:t3: as all over the place I have been, I’m proud of my progress. Stronger everyday! Thanks Per4m x

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This 12 weeks has completely transformed my life. The discipline I’ve build, habits, mental strength honestly it’s been a challenge but I’m so thankful to my past self for making this change. Mentally and physically I’ve came so far, thank you Per4m!!!

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You got that right :wink::sweat_smile: